One of the most serious Achilles heels in a relationship is the one that leads to heated quarrels and arguments. Once you get into an argument with your partner, it is difficult to extricate yourselves from it, and sometimes it seems that the fights in relationships are neverending and that the couple is in one big, ongoing fight throughout the entire relationship.
According to the zodiac, there are a number of zodiac signs that are affected by elements such as land, wind and water, that arrive in certain months of the year and cause quite a bit of friction - which serves as a trigger for incessant arguments. So, which zodiac signs aren’t easy to get along with? Here are four of them:
Aries (March 21-April 19)
Ariens are aggressive and passionate people and it is hard to best them in an argument - even if they aren’t always right. The Mars-controlled Aries is always ready and prepared for battle and is determined to win every fight, even in relationships. When the Ariens realize that they aren’t right or when they realize that they have made a mistake - they won’t admit it - which is problematic for those who are in a relationship with them. The good news is that Ariens know how to forgive and forget and they won't argue too much. Their anger will disappear quickly, and they’ll continue after the reconciliation as if nothing happened.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
Our Taureans are warm and loving people. However, if you mess with the bull, you’ll get the horns, and they’ll use their horns against their opponent if they are pushed to the edge. Taureans are tolerant but also reactionary. Therefore, in cases of unrestrained rage, it is difficult to appease them, especially in the wake of a heated argument or a lovers’ quarrel. Nonetheless, the totality of this zodiac sign is also the reason for the partner to remain with them, because despite the quarrels, the Taureans will continue to be loyal and will provide those who love them with all the warmth and love they have to offer.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
Geminis are great chess players, especially when it comes to relationship strategies. The intelligent Gemini uses their insightful mind to produce an advantage over their partner. Therefore, they will not be the ones to call in order to grovel after a quarrel, and they are the type who will give their partner a reason to be jealous so that they will immediately return to the relationship by groveling. The tactics the Gemini adopts during a fight are designed to get them out of the corners they argued themselves into, while being smart enough to make their partner feel guilty, even if they are completely right. The paradox is that all this intelligence is what draws partners to the Geminis, so they are always coveted and loved.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
In order to win or end an emotional world war with a Scorpio, one must give them time to cool off from an argument or quarrel because the Scorpios, as hot-tempered earth signs, will sting and fight their opponents until they lose their senses, especially if they are not given the break they need to calm their hot temper. The Scorpio is probably one of the hardest to understand, especially during an argument, and they know how to land blows below the belt mainly because they are harboring resentment or saving up an insult or sting for moments of quarrel. In order to straighten the edges with Scorpios and get the relationship back on track, it's important to initiate a serious, calm conversation a few hours or days after the fight.
That's right, every one of the four types we have mentioned have great qualities that make them especially loved people. Therefore, it is important to know that along with all good there is also some bad, and with every difficult and overbearing trait there are also pleasant and profound qualities that make them wonderful people.
It’s important to know that each of us has dominant and peculiar qualities of different kinds, while some of the quirks and traits are the reasons we fell in love with our spouse or partner in the first place. In addition, it’s worth noting that almost anyone can conduct a mature discussion and fight fairly for important principles. Therefore, one must try to reach understandings and to continue to better manage relationships.